Priorities Everywhere!

Hey Friends...☺

I just wanna ask you something... Who is your first Priority?

Your Parents? Your Spouse? Your Lover? Your children?

Whoever it may be. Are you theirs first priority? Not all the time right? Life changes and so Priority. No relationships are guaranteed in this uncertain world but there is someone who has been in your life’s journey since your first cry and who is gonna travel with you till eternity. That’s none other than your Beautiful Soul.

Most often we forgot about our inner being which is longing to enjoy this amazing life with us but the problem is we are stone deaf to our inner-voice. Habitually we never listen to our hearts. Sooner or later inner self starts screaming inside thereby we begin to lack our peace, happiness even our self-worth.

So today I am gonna help you to introspect.

Long ago I was happened to meet a girl on my very first day of the college. After our self-introduction, I asked her “What is you major in 12th grade? “Biology” she responded then I asked “why did you choose computer science?” she replied, “It was my mom’s choice.” After a year I saw her wearing Green outfits continuously for a week. Out of curiosity I enquired about her green wears she gushed that it was her boyfriend’s favorite colour(however, it’s a women’s college). After 3 years she visited me with her wedding invitation when I had a glance there is no clue of Mr.Green. I gazed her “My dad refused Mr.Green,” she whispered and left with heavy heart. Later I visited her home. She was a dog lover but there is no sign of dogs. I just heard Meows... She received me and said my mother-in-law loves only cats with a sheepish smile. She served me with hot spicy crabs which are allergic to her. I stopped questioning “It’s my Hubby’s Favorite dish,” she continued with a hidden agony.

From this above illustration, one thing is crystal clear. She didn’t live for herself. She lost herself in others approval and attention. She existed in others wishes and opinions. Yes guys... almost entirely we live for others we get stuck in others decisions, we lost ourselves in others acceptance and acknowledgement. We are also concerned about others criticism.

We never gave importance to our inner child. Over a period of time we feel worn out, frustrated and exhausted. Life becomes worthless. One easy and plain magic is.

• Give Priority to Yourself
• Feel Your Importance
• Listen to your Heart
• Do what makes you Happy

List down your little wishes. Do one thing in a day which makes you super happy. Do something in a day which excites you. It should energize your spirit and refresh your soul. It can be a simple things like dancing in rain, chasing a butterfly, watching a movie, listening to your best-loved songs, gardening, cooking your desired recipe, pillow-fight, drawing & coloring, playing games, walk with your friend, reading a cool book, bird watching, buying a scoop of ice cream, riding and driving, etc., Its up to you. Try to spend time for yourself, let you be your first preference.

When I was sharing about this stuff to my class, there was a naughty boy popped up with a brilliant question with a sarcastic smile. Question is “ I am 14 yrs old. I like to drink and smoke. Shall I do it every day? It excites me.”I smiled at him and replied “Dear, there is something called BALANCE in life, if you go to extremes you will fall off... similarly if you only do things that makes you happy and excited later on you will feel hard to socialize with people because you will be called as a Selfish Giant and if you only do things that make others happy you will feel empty inside So it’s good to stay in Balance” There were giggles all around but one’s eyes were beamed in the middle.

At times it’s acceptable to do or sacrifice something for our loved ones... but it should be done out of love not under compulsion. If it’s done out of love our happiness will be doubled and we can attain the contentment in our only life.

To end with... Give importance to yourself... because you are valuable. Do something that excites you... because you deserve it. Don’t lose your precious self for others.

STOP EXISTING START LIVING…

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